After not doing anything else for the first one and a half trimesters and a few weeks of energetic life with regular sleep I am now totally unable to sleep. I will wake up several times a night and then finally at 5 am I usually just give up. This lack of sleep makes me […]

I have several times been (in)directly told to be a bad parent even if we haven’t had the baby yet. These comments might be more or less well meant, but non the less hurtfull. We are asked a lot about how we will share the parental leaves and we have openly said I will use […]

We had the second and last sonogram today at public helathcare. I must say it was really good this time! The nurse was very professional and told us what we could see in the picture as well as treated us both equally as parents. Also it was the first time someone in healthcare actually understood […]

We have told almost all our friends about the pregnancy, and I have been open about it at work. I am not always sure about how to react to peoples reactions when they find out I am pregnant though. Me: I am going to be on family leave in the autumn Other person: Wow great, […]